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milkykittentea:

gendervaque:

proteinpills:

If I ever end up moving in with someone I’m in a relationship with, I want us to have separate bedrooms. I need us to have our own rooms. This doesn’t mean we won’t sleep together, it means we will get to have our own space when we need/want it. Not just for if we’re fighting, but just because people need space sometimes.

i’m actually in this arrangement right now with my partner and i can confirm this is the best idea ever especially if you’re incredibly introverted like i am

i wish more people understood this mindset

this honestly sounds ideal and is what i want.

My wife and I have this arrangement too! She has PTSD from a past relationship and sometimes she needs her own “age space” that is hers where she doesn’t have to share. I am WELCOME in her space, but when she is flashback mode I know that sometimes what she needs is just a little quiet while she reorients herself.

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